Some people maybe don't like what I am going to speak out here in this message. And that is fine, it is ok. Because I am writing my own observations. I don't pretend to be right. I write my personal truth here. This is my understanding of today. If tomorrow I understand a little bit more, then I will change this text a little bit. But as Kryon explained: there are many different truths, as there are many different paths to the awakening.

What is seeing with the heart and „seeing others correctly“ ? How do we see a person we are talking with? When we talk with each other, our human self still tends to see only the „human“, as we see the outer appearance of the person. But as long as we see them like this, look at them and think about them like this, we are only aware of one part of the whole being. With this, we are not fully helping them to grow and to heal.

Most of us have the habit to analyze others. We got used to think: „ ah, he/she needs this and that; and he/she should do this and that.“. Somehow, we all do that often. We developed the habit to see the other person that way. Our intentions may be filled with love. But seeing others with our human vision only, is seeing only one part of the being. It is not seeing them as they truly are. 

Whenever a person talks with us, our vision should also be on the Divine Self, on the Soul. Who are we to believe that we would know what this person really needs? Who are we to think that we would know what he/she should do or not do? Only their Higher Divine Self knows and guides it. Only their I-AM-Presence knows what this person really needs at this time of its path and what the Divine Plan is for him or her.

As healers, we are channels for the Divine Light. At least, I do see myself like that. If I can step aside and allow the Divine Light and Divine Consciousness to flow through me, for the highest and greatest good of all, then maybe healings can be experienced. But as soon as I start analyzing the other person's situation and put any kind of labels on him/her, the free flow of the Divine Light is being limited through my egos filters. That is why I have to step aside.

The healers I know, when they do assist another person, they do not think that they (the human being) are healing the other person. In their understanding, they are a channel for that Divine Light. And the person's healing experience totally depends on the person's free choice and free will.  

Before answering a question, we can stop all our thoughts and ask Divine Guidance FIRST, before talking. Again, I do not pretend to know what the other person really needs. I do share what I have learned and what I know does help. But the Divine Guidance does know better. I do not know the Divine Plan of this person's Soul. Only Divine Guidance knows this. My job is to lay aside all my prejudices, projections and personal ideas. And if I can be still and lay aside my personal thoughts, the answers that help the most can then be shown to us.

One has no right to put any kind of labels, diagnosis or analyzes upon any other person, because that would be a real lack of respect towards the other person. Only Divine Guidance knows about the other person's Soul and what is truly needed in that moment. And others have no right to judge, to label or to analyze the other Soul's journey in any way.

This is how we can assist others, if we are able to step aside with our human vision and allow our own Divine Self to help us see the other person's Divine Self too. But as long as we continue to see the other person's mistakes, the other person's outer appearances and even go to the point where we put any kind of labels on the other person and his/her situation, something is missing.

 It is a big difference if one answers from the perspective of the human self and out of the intellect, or if one answers from the higher perspective of the Divine Consciousness.

As long as we keep our focus on the problems and weaknesses, our help is somehow incomplete. We can help better, if we see also the Divine Self of the person we are talking with, and see them as truly equal to us. Our Souls had different experiences over many past incarnations, and that makes each one of us so unique. 

In our daily life: when talking with others, we help them the most when we do no longer see their outer appearances, their physical appearances, but see their Divine Self the best we can. This is who they (and we) truly are: Divine Beings, Divine Souls. Then, we are listening for Divine Guidance from one moment to the next moment. We then learn to be humble and see others as truly equal, instead of seeing them as „human being“ only.

For those on the spiritual path, the old labels, job positions or any kind of titles no longer count the same way than before. The situation a person is in today, it now can change within 24 hours; and the person can make big shifts, receive healings and do inner progresses within a few days.

The person who works as an employee and is cleaning buildings can be a teacher for certain themes you have to learn for your own spiritual awakening; and this person could be a better teacher to you for those specific themes, than a person with 5 university diplomas. Many people carry a great spiritual wisdom and knowledge with them from older lifetimes - but there are no papers or diplomas for this. It is also the spiritual wisdom a Soul has accumulated over many lifetimes.

If we truly dare to listen to each person we meet and look beyond their outer appearances, every Soul we meet can be a precious friend for our own path now. Sometimes the person we would expect it the least then has real great wisdom to share with us. But as long as we walk around and put our analyzes, our diagnosis or our labels on others (or maybe even project our personal expectations, our personal ideas or desires on them), we will not see the real gifts that they have for us and our own spiritual path.

The greatest spiritual teachers, the greatest healers and spiritual masters in the history of this planet did not go to any type of University. They had no special diplomas of any kind. They didn't need job titles or other labels. They lived from their hearts and they were aware of their Soul, their Divine Guidance full time. They were tuned into Divine Consciousness.
Therefore, they treated each person they met with the same unconditional love and always as totally equal; they were deeply humble. They would meet and welcome every single person the same open, the same loving and in the same respectful way. Because they knew that the Soul of the person they were talking to is truly equal and comes from the same Divine Source...

Divine Blessings to You.

Jeanne J.

Sometimes we hear people say: "Oh well, maybe he/she was just not the right one." Or others say even: "You can learn how to attract your soulmate." Here, there seems to be a little misunderstanding that I wish to explain better:

Why do people always talk about "the right one"? Living together in a relationship actually is a conscious choice that two grown up and mature beings make together: they set the intent and make the clear choice to live together, to be lifepartners. They create together, as a co-creation, the experience for a long term love relationship and then they live what they have chosen to share. It is a choice we make, something we consciously choose to do. Many people are still outside of this awareness and walk through live half-hearted, and say that they hoping for "the right one". But a real relationship can be so much more...  

We do not need to learn how to attract a soulmate. It really happens naturally, when we are ready to learn the truth our Soul wishes us to discover. Yes, he/she obviously is the right one: to help you heal, to help you grow and to step into your own personal power. A soulmate is not a person who arrives on a white horse to bring you in a castle above the clouds, where everything is pastel colors in fairy tales pictures, only to feed the needs of the ego. That is not reality. As long as people project their emotional needs on each other and expect the partner to act in a certain way, real love is not possible. 

There is a misunderstanding about the idea of soulmates. Once you are on the path of awakening, the goal of YOUR Soul is to set you free from all negative beliefs about yourself, all the wrong ideas you still carry with you. Your goal is to be free from your old unhealed wounds. Your Soul wants to connect and merge with you, but it can only do this if you have cleaned out the old illusions and emotional baggage that are still in your energy field. 

Maybe you hear people say that relationships with soulmates can be more challenging in the beginning. In some situations, this is true. It depends where on the path of awakening a person is. It depends how much of the old energies have already been released; and how much one is already in alignment with his Divine Self.​ 

As long as you walk around with the heart closed, these old wounds, old pains, old fears and old aspects remain well hidden. They hinder you to live your full potentials. You distract yourself with entertainment, food or other ego-things, and make sure you do not get one quiet moment in your daily lives; because the moment you would sit still for more than 20 minutes and allow yourself to feel what you really feel, for sure then you would FEEL all the old repressed emotions.

To help you grow, your Soul will no longer draw to you partners who feed your ego, or who keep you in old illusions where you can continue to avoid your unhealed wounds. To help you heal, your Soul brings to you now people and situations that help you really heal yourself. This can be a new friend, a new co-worker, and of course a new life-partner.

This is where the soulmate really enters in: one of their roles in your life is to help you to free yourself from all the old pains, so that you can truly step into your power, heal and wake up, move forward on your path to real freedom. Because your real wish is living in the Oneness with your Divine Soul.

This is why a soulmate will not spoil your ego and protect you from feeling certain things. He/she will bring to surface all the illusions of your ego, all the games your ego wants to play, and break through the walls of self-protections around your heart. 

A soulmate therefore will sometimes show you the negative beliefs you entertain about yourself and your life,​ so that you can easier clean out those illusions that no longer serve you. A soulmate is not going to feed your ego; because you wish to learn to truly love yourself in an unconditional way. Instead, one will maybe trigger old topics, so that they can now come to surface and being healed.​ 

It is not only the other who is a mirror for you. You are in that same way a mirror for the other person too. You are soulmates to each other and meet to help each other heal the rest of what still needs to be healed. This is never a monolog where only one of the two partners goes through these processes. Treat each other with respect always, with loving kindness and compassion, and always with patience truly.  

All these things do work for both partners: if one is that kind of soulmate for you, the other also is being shown his/her weaknesses and unhealed themes. This is only possible when one can truly open the heart, allows to fall in love with the other and allows to feel vulnerable. Do this together in a loving and safe space. 

Truly open your heart and falling in love with a soulmate will show you where you still entertain lack of self-worth, lack of self-esteem and lack of self-love. It brings to surface all the hidden belief systems you entertain about love, about partnership and similar themes. Some of them,
the ego may not want to give them up. 

A soulmate does not make you feel secure, but will gently help you to learn to feel secure and good about yourself. And when your soulmate triggers these weaknesses in you, for sure it gets temporarily uncomfortable, but this is for the healing. At this point, it is important not to project the old themes on to the other, but using the chance for doing the conscious healing work that needs to be done. 

Understand this: How can a person learn to take the full responsibility for his/her feelings and learn to love himself and find its own strength within, as long as we continue playing the role of the emotional security net to him/her? 
From a higher perspective, one of the gifts of love we can do for others is to stop playing the role of that emotional safety net and stop trying to over-protect those we love. Fact is that as long as we try to over protect those we love, we somehow hinder them to grow - it does not serve them.

Instead of protecting them too much, we can allow those we love to feel their unhealed wounds, so that they can become free and move forward. If there we can lovingly step aside, allowing the other person to face their weakness, their shadows and their own repressed emotional pains, we give them a real chance to grow. 

As soulmates, you are also helping each other to discover what has been holding you back on your path to freedom, harmony, love and maturity. After this has been done, more love can flow freely into your life...

The gift of the soulmate is to bring to surface your feelings of insecurity and the old aspects who need to be brought into the light. That is cleaning out the old energies. In those moments it is important not to judge, not to project or criticize, because this could mess up the purpose of the relationship. In those moments, take the time to sit in meditation and go within, and there do the cleaning and healing work that your Soul is guiding you to do.
Trust. Allow. Love.

This is why sometimes you hear people say that relationships with soulmates can be more challenging in the beginning. But rest assured that AFTER this phase of releasing old energies, it gets easier and you both then share the beauty of your love in a truly fulfilling way. ​

There is a beautiful potential for deep healing in those relationships.
Such a soulmate doesn't always have to be a life partner. This healing can
​also be shared and experienced within beautiful friendships.

Divine Blessings to You,

Jeanne J.