What is seeing with the heart and „seeing others correctly“ ? How do we see a person we are talking with? When we talk with each other, our human self still tends to see only the „human“, as we see the outer appearance of the person. But as long as we see them like this, look at them and think about them like this, we are only aware of one part of the whole being. With this, we are not fully helping them to grow and to heal.
Most of us have the habit to analyze others. We got used to think: „ ah, he/she needs this and that; and he/she should do this and that.“. Somehow, we all do that often. We developed the habit to see the other person that way. Our intentions may be filled with love. But seeing others with our human vision only, is seeing only one part of the being. It is not seeing them as they truly are.
Whenever a person talks with us, our vision should also be on the Divine Self, on the Soul. Who are we to believe that we would know what this person really needs? Who are we to think that we would know what he/she should do or not do? Only their Higher Divine Self knows and guides it. Only their I-AM-Presence knows what this person really needs at this time of its path and what the Divine Plan is for him or her.
As healers, we are channels for the Divine Light. At least, I do see myself like that. If I can step aside and allow the Divine Light and Divine Consciousness to flow through me, for the highest and greatest good of all, then maybe healings can be experienced. But as soon as I start analyzing the other person's situation and put any kind of labels on him/her, the free flow of the Divine Light is being limited through my egos filters. That is why I have to step aside.
The healers I know, when they do assist another person, they do not think that they (the human being) are healing the other person. In their understanding, they are a channel for that Divine Light. And the person's healing experience totally depends on the person's free choice and free will.
Before answering a question, we can stop all our thoughts and ask Divine Guidance FIRST, before talking. Again, I do not pretend to know what the other person really needs. I do share what I have learned and what I know does help. But the Divine Guidance does know better. I do not know the Divine Plan of this person's Soul. Only Divine Guidance knows this. My job is to lay aside all my prejudices, projections and personal ideas. And if I can be still and lay aside my personal thoughts, the answers that help the most can then be shown to us.
One has no right to put any kind of labels, diagnosis or analyzes upon any other person, because that would be a real lack of respect towards the other person. Only Divine Guidance knows about the other person's Soul and what is truly needed in that moment. And others have no right to judge, to label or to analyze the other Soul's journey in any way.
This is how we can assist others, if we are able to step aside with our human vision and allow our own Divine Self to help us see the other person's Divine Self too. But as long as we continue to see the other person's mistakes, the other person's outer appearances and even go to the point where we put any kind of labels on the other person and his/her situation, something is missing.
It is a big difference if one answers from the perspective of the human self and out of the intellect, or if one answers from the higher perspective of the Divine Consciousness.
As long as we keep our focus on the problems and weaknesses, our help is somehow incomplete. We can help better, if we see also the Divine Self of the person we are talking with, and see them as truly equal to us. Our Souls had different experiences over many past incarnations, and that makes each one of us so unique.
In our daily life: when talking with others, we help them the most when we do no longer see their outer appearances, their physical appearances, but see their Divine Self the best we can. This is who they (and we) truly are: Divine Beings, Divine Souls. Then, we are listening for Divine Guidance from one moment to the next moment. We then learn to be humble and see others as truly equal, instead of seeing them as „human being“ only.
For those on the spiritual path, the old labels, job positions or any kind of titles no longer count the same way than before. The situation a person is in today, it now can change within 24 hours; and the person can make big shifts, receive healings and do inner progresses within a few days.
The person who works as an employee and is cleaning buildings can be a teacher for certain themes you have to learn for your own spiritual awakening; and this person could be a better teacher to you for those specific themes, than a person with 5 university diplomas. Many people carry a great spiritual wisdom and knowledge with them from older lifetimes - but there are no papers or diplomas for this. It is also the spiritual wisdom a Soul has accumulated over many lifetimes.
If we truly dare to listen to each person we meet and look beyond their outer appearances, every Soul we meet can be a precious friend for our own path now. Sometimes the person we would expect it the least then has real great wisdom to share with us. But as long as we walk around and put our analyzes, our diagnosis or our labels on others (or maybe even project our personal expectations, our personal ideas or desires on them), we will not see the real gifts that they have for us and our own spiritual path.
The greatest spiritual teachers, the greatest healers and spiritual masters in the history of this planet did not go to any type of University. They had no special diplomas of any kind. They didn't need job titles or other labels. They lived from their hearts and they were aware of their Soul, their Divine Guidance full time. They were tuned into Divine Consciousness.
Therefore, they treated each person they met with the same unconditional love and always as totally equal; they were deeply humble. They would meet and welcome every single person the same open, the same loving and in the same respectful way. Because they knew that the Soul of the person they were talking to is truly equal and comes from the same Divine Source...
Divine Blessings to You.