Instead of wasting time and energy to think and analyse situations over and over again, access it with a higher consciousness. You are a Divine Being of Love and Light, you are a Divine Soul. You can therefore change situations with the power of that Divine Light.
You can use this technique for your personal life, for business meetings, for family meetings, or any situation of your daily life. Bringing in higher Divine Light and Divine Love into any situation will always raise the vibrations higher. The higher the vibrations, the more peace, more clarity, more harmony and more love is possible for all.
Situations where people argue, experience tensions and misunderstandings are often situations where one or more people are reacting from the human consciousness, or from the ego, or out of fears. Sometimes, there are projections of old emotions, unfulfilled needs, emotional wounds and other limiting beliefs. When people come from different levels of consciousness, this then can create misunderstandings.
If you are on the spiritual path, then you do have tools you can use to raise the vibration of such situations. You can decide to consciously work with the situation from a higher perspective, bring in more Light, change the energy patterns of the situation and transform it. This can bring in peace and clarity and support all people on their path.
You can do this with personal situations in your own life, or you can apply this to situations from your past where you wish to change the memories, and you can use these tools for all areas of your daily life. Instead of efforting in situations the old way, you transform the situations from the perspective of your Higher Divine Self.
To begin with this, you go into meditation, in Oneness with your Divine Self, you call in Divine Light, Divine Support from the Higher Divine Realms, from the Ascended Masters, from the Angelic Realms. You establish a strong connection and set a clear intent that the transformation is serving the higher good of all involved, the healing of all, according to Higher Divine Will.
Then, you bring that situation to the center of your focus, you can imagine a big screen, or a table, or whatever works best for you to visualize it. To clean out old blockages, old energies, old emotions, you can use the Violet Consuming Flame (by Master Saint-Germain) and this will clean the situation. Work with the Violet Flames for a moment.
Then, ask the Divine Beings of Light to bring in any qualities of Higher Divine Light that will support the healing and transformation of the situation. If it is peace that is needed, you can ask the Elohim of Peace to bring in the energies of peace into the situation. You can then also speak a prayer about the situation, ask for Divine Blessings, for Divine Guidance and Divine Protection.
Allow Your Divine Self to guide you in this work. In alignment with your Divine Soul, you'll see clearly what is really needed. You then call in more Divine Love, Divine Light and Divine Support into the situation. Visualize White Light, Golden Light surrounding the whole situation. Ask the Divine Angels to hold the healing Light in that situation for the times needed. Set an intention for healing and for peace for the whole situation, for the highest good of all involved.
Hold this focus for a moment, visualize the Divine Light and all the Divine Qualities of healing Light around the situation, speak words of blessings, speak prayers, until you feel inner peace about it. Then, surrender the whole situations to the Higher Realms of Divine Light. Thank all the Higher Divine Beings of Light for their precious support.
Repeat these steps during several days.
To make sure the healing you just did continues to work in that situation, continue to visualize the Divine Light Qualities all around it. Control your personal emotions; always keep all thoughts from the ego out of it. This will only work if you come from a honest intention of Divine Love and total respect of other people's boundaries.
With Love and Light,