The other day, a former co-worker told me that in the company where I worked in the past, people would gossip about me. I thought to myself "Thank You God that I don't need their approval..."
Let's bring this to an end once for all: Why do people gossip about others?
People gossip, because they are obviously jealous of you and unable to feel happy for you. But there is so much more to it.... :
People gossip, because they think that somehow you are more powerful, more beautiful, better qualified, more talented in a way that they can't explain, and because of their own lack of self-worth, they need to make you look smaller. It also means that they do not see their own talents, their own beauty and their own qualities, which is sad for them. If they would have a positive self-image, they would not be jealous of others..... and then they would not gossip.
People gossip, 'cause they do not like themselves, they do not feel confident and they do not accept themselves as they are. They do not love themselves. If they would feel confident and love who they are, they naturally could love and appreciate you. But they can't, and therefore they struggle so badly accepting others too .... therefore, they gossip 'cause it's the only way they know to make themselves look better.
People who gossip negatively about others are not aware that while gossiping, they say a lot more about themselves than about others. They especially say that they lack of love and are unable to respect others. Which is sad. By gossiping, they also admit that they are unable to feel happy for others and their success. They also admit that they feel insecure about who they are.
People who gossip about others are obviously unhappy and frustrated about their own lives. Because a truly happy person never feels the need to gossip about others in any negative way. So if people waist their time gossiping about you, they must be frustrated. Which again is sad for them.
People who gossip also lack of intelligence and social skills. Intelligent and mature people know that good karma comes always to those who do speak well about others. We all know the laws of attraction and the laws of good karma: the better you speak about others and the more you uplift others with your words, the better your karma will be.
Your answer to people who gossip is as simple as this: "Thanks for sharing your opinions, but I really don't care about it. Your approval isn't needed here at all, because I have God's approval and God's love, and that gives me every day all the power I need. And I wish for you to find that same power and love within your heart soon too."
Then, there are other reasons why they try to humiliate others, bullying others, mobbing others and gossip about others. With all these kinds of behaviors, they are showing that they do have many personal issues they are trying to hide. Maybe others have been humiliating them in the past, they got hurt and they did not get the help they needed. They may still need help now...
The reason why people gossip negatively about others is simple: They do not know the love of God in their hearts. They will stop gossiping about others as soon as they have found a way to reconnect with their own Divine Source. Once they feel again the love of their own Divine Source, they will be healed too.
People gossip, because they feel bad. They feel that you have something they are longing for: the connection with Divine Source, with God. They feel bad, because they have lost their own alignment with their own Soul and their own Divine Source. All they need to do to fix this, is to pray and meditate every morning too... as soon as they have reconnected with their own Divine Light/God, they will feel loved too.
You see, you really do not need to react to gossip. These people are sadly creating their own negative karma with every bad word they may say about you. And as soon as they have found their connection with their Divine Source again, they will awaken and no longer gossip about others, because their hearts will be filled with enough love.....
Intelligent people do not gossip, and intelligent people never believe in any gossip or other stories. Good people see your light, your qualities and your Soul, therefore they do not care about what others may say. Surround yourself with people who are wise enough to see your worth and your qualities :-)
(( more to follow soon ))
Big hugs to you,